We continued our work today and short periods of time of separation. All barking gets ignored and the reunion doesn't happen until all is quiet. To make it more pleasant for him while I'm away (even in the same room but with a barrier), he gets something special. I save his good stuff (Kongs, Bully Sticks, etc.) for when he's alone. I don't make a big production before I leave him or when I come back. In fact, I almost ignore him for several minutes. I just don't want him to think it's a big deal when I leave or when I come back.
Make sure, too, to vary your special treats for him. It makes it a little more exciting and, if it's something he doesn't get very often, it makes it a little more valuable.
Sometimes it's ok if he sleeps under my desk while I'm working but I'm not going to fuss a lot with him while he's there.
Occasionally it's ok to go into another room without him. I'm still not going to make a big deal of my comings and goings. It's just super casual.
I also avoid mindless petting. That sounds hard, right? I mean, really, look at that face. How can you resist? But it's not as bad as it sounds. It just means being a little more
conscientious about when you pet him. Ask him for a sit or for attention before petting him. Just have him work a little bit for it. If you want to pet him, instead of going to him, ask him to come to you. It doesn't mean you can't snuggle with him. It's just more of a shift from George calling all the shots to you calling all the shots.
George offers up plenty of opportunities to work on his demand barking but I wanted to do an activity with him that was a) fun and b) full of opportunities to teach him an alternate behavior. So we worked on a dog puzzle where he has to figure out how to move pieces in order to find the hidden treats.
First he needs to be quiet while I'm loading the puzzle. If he barks, I immediately shove the puzzle back and turn my back on him. I don't continue with the puzzle until he's been quiet for at least 10 seconds. Then I praise him for being quiet and continue loading the puzzle. Next, he has to sit patiently while I put the puzzle down. This helps him learn to earn the privilege of playing.
And the payoff is big...
Because then he gets to play. It's much easier and not as formal as it sounds and the dogs' like it just as much as they do when they are learning new tricks.
George said it wasn't too bad here. They even had a window for him to watch the world go by.
But it wasn't quite like home. It was hard to squish himself into the window sill.
He thinks it would be much better if they built him a big window seat like at home because this just doesn't work as well.
And all this hard work just wears a guy out.